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The following articles and slide presentations are by Bahamian, Barrington H. Brennen MA Coun. Psy., MA Rel., NCP, BCCP, JP, a specialist in relationships.  He is a marriage and family therapist, counseling psychologist, nationally certified psychologist, Board Certified Clinical Psychotherapist (USA) an ordained minister of the gospel, a marriage officer and a Justice of the Peace for the Commonwealth of The Bahamas.   These articles are designed to provide insight, inspiration, restoration, information and healing for individuals and relationships.  If you are single, married, divorced, homosexual, heterosexual, lonely or happy, there is something here to encourage you and to help you "smile again."     Brennen's BIO
 

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    New Article(s)   Wednesday, February 15, 2017

  1. Please, Let's Talk

  2. My Wise List for 2017

 

 

  

    Romantic Relationships Courting, Dating, Marriage, Engagement

  1. She Wants A Leader

  2. Sex and the Single Life Slides from "Cure for the Common Life"

  3. I Cannot Get These Images Out of My Head

  4. Please Pay Rent to Your Parents

  5. I Need More Than a Peck

  6. Dating Puts You Out of Circulation

  7. Unhealthy Relationships Slide Presentation  Bahamas Harvest Church, May 31, 2014

  8. How To Stop An Affair

  9. Habits Used By Successful Couples

  10. Lord, Please Give Me A Good Husband

  11. Oxytocin and the Twenty-Second Hug

  12. You Cannot Have Peace in Your Marriage

  13. Too Old for Sex

  14. To Young to Love

  15. No Digital Affairs with Christmas

  16. The Ultimate Betrayal

  17. Smoke-Free Marriages

  18. Honey, I Appreciate You

  19. Seat Belts and Marriage

  20. Kiss Me Please A Remake

  21. Is Marriage On the Decline?

  22. The Do List for Married Couples

  23. She Has A Right to Know

  24. The Marriage Duet

  25. Blood Is Thicker Than Water

  26. Essentials of Marriage Preparation

  27. Intimate Partner Violence Quiz

  28. Tell The World You Are Getting Married

  29. ONLINE QUESTIONS:  What Kind of Woman Do You Want?

  30. What to Do On Valentines Day?

  31. Romantic Make-Over

  32. Honey, Let's Talk 

  33. Intellectual Intimacy 

  34. Spiritual Intimacy  

  35. Marriage and Divorce in the Bahamas

  36. Infidelity: Game or Sin? Part II

  37. Infidelity: Game or Sin?

  38. I Lost My Breasts And My Husband

  39. Marriage & Divorce & Live Births Statistics  Updated November 19, 2007

  40. Compulsory Pre-Marriage Health Certificate Needed  PDF FORMAT

  41. The Couple that Eats Johnny Cake Sticks Together (Sermon).  PDF Format

  42. The Secret of 51 Golden Years (Article)  PDF Format

  43. The Four Women In My Life

  44. Is Commitment Enough?  Part 2

  45. Is Commitment Enough?

  46. The Fire is Gone Out - When the Sex Drive is Dead

  47. Nurturing a Long Distance Relationship

  48. Opposite or Complementary?

  49. Don't Be Fooled, Flowers Aren't Enough

  50. Spicy and Sweet Month

  51. Making Weddings Sacred Once More - Part Two

  52. Making Weddings Sacred Once More - Part One

  53. Marital Conflict Seminar Handout

  54. The Golden Era of Marriage

  55. The Greatest of These Is Love

  56. A Perfect Marriage is Possible  PDF Format

  57. Forgive Him?!  No Way!

  58. Getting Married for the Wrong Reasons

  59. Love Makes No Demands

  60. When Loving You Is Destroying Me

  61. Dating Games

  62. Secret Ingredients for a Spicy Marriage

  63. Honey, Love Alone Will Not Do

  64. Is Your Lover Loving You?

  65. Wealth, Success, or Love?

  66. I Now Pronounce You "Man and Wife."

  67. Favoritism Destroys Families and Nations 

  68. How Do I know I the Shoe Fits?

  69. My Sweet Valentine 

  70. Kiss Me, Kiss Me, Kiss Me 1994

  71. Kiss Me Please A Remake 2009

  72. Honey, What do You What to do Tonight? 

  73. Time is Your Best Friend 

  74. I have Rights too, Baby"    

  75. How to Handle Conflicts   

  76. Marital Conflict Seminar Handout

  77. Toxic Intimacy

  78. Guidelines for Fighting With Your Spouse  PDF

 

Marriage Ceremony and Vows

  1. The Marriage Vows

  2. The Marriage Ceremony

 

 

 

Grief and Loss

  1. Complicated Grief

  2. Tips On Grieving Handout

 

 

Forgiveness

  1. Forgive Instantly.  Trust Slowly

  2. Forgiveness is an Ugly Beast   2013

  3. Forgive Him?!  No Way! 

 

 

Music

  1. Classical Music Everywhere

  2. Classical Music Can Reduce Crime

  3. Music and the Quality of Life

  4. Music, the Brain and Your Health

  5. The Junkanoo Pains     PDF Format  

  6. Junkanoo Isn't Enough

 

 

 

 

Pornography 

  1. The Porn Craze

  2. Pornography and Censorship  

 

    Sexual Relationships

  1. Sex Can Destroy a Relationship

  2. The ABCs of Great Sex

  3. Abortion: Freedom or Misery

  4. Is Sex Dirty or Sinful

  5. When A Man is Raped Part 2

  6. When A Man Is Raped Part 1

  7. From Subordination to Equality in Christ By Annick Brennen

  8. Abortion

  9. The Ultimate Betrayal

  10. Why Should I Not Have Sex Before Marriage

  11. Sexual Harassment

  12. Rape is Not Sex

  13. My Husband Raped Me

  14. Do Not Touch the Hips

  15. Keep You Hands Off

  16. Innocent or Guilty?

  17. We Need Healing In Our Church   (Part One)

  18. How to Help A Wounded Pastor  ( Part Two)

  19. Sexual Abuse Prevention & Healing Seminar for People in Power

  20. Marital Rape, Myth or Reality

  21. Sex and Driving  Article for Monday June 21, 2004 in the Nassau Guardian

  22. Sex In The Forbidden Zone - Part IV "Wounded Men   PDF FORMAT  New

  23. Sex In The Forbidden Zone - Part III "Wounded WomenPDF Format

  24. Sex In the Forbidden Zone - Part II  PDF Format

  25. Sex In The Forbidden Zone - Part I  PDF Format

  26. Sex and Driving 

  27. I prefer Experienced Men

  28. The Man I am Pregnant For Isn't My Husband - Part 1   Part  2

  29. Releasing Sexual Tension -   Part 2  

  30. Dangerous Sexual Secrets  Written May 1, 2002

 

 

      Roles in Marriage & Gender Equality

  1. A Demonstration of Love is Needed

  2. The Imperative Vote

  3. "Yes" Is The Natural Way

  4. Opportunity or Dilemma

  5. Understanding the Terms

  6. She Wants A Leader

  7. What If?  Gender equality and amendments to the Constitution of The Bahamas

  8. Multidimensional Men for Gender Equality

  9. Rights

  10. Men, Here's How to Love the Other Gender  Gender Equality Rightly Understood, Part Two

  11. Men, Here’s How to Love the Other Gender  Gender Equality Rightly Understood, Part One

  12. She Is Not Your Helper

  13. Wives are not Maids

  14. Fixing the Testosterone and Sharing the Power

  15. Leadership is the Top Stumbling Block in Marriage

  16. ONLINE QUESTIONS:  What Kind of Woman Do You Want?

  17. Anymore Good Women Available?  PDF Format

  18. The Budget Debate  PDF Format

  19. The Sample Budget and Guidelines

  20. The Unwanted Virtuous Woman  PDF Format

  21. The Unwanted Virtuous Man  PDF Format

  22. Lord Please Give Me  House Wife   

  23. Should I Get Pregnant or Have a Career? 

  24. The Five Kinds of Wives

  25. Gentlemen, Please Remove Your Hats   The Five Kinds of Husbands

  26. Honey, Let's Led Together - Part One

  27. Forgive Him?!  No Way!

 

Retirement

  1. Retirement: Blessing or Curse?

  2. Aged Vigor

 

 

    Male Leadership In Crisis Series

  1. Male Leadership In Crisis  Part One

  2. Male Leadership In Crisis  Part Two

  3. Male Leadership In Crisis  Part Three

  4. Dad, I Need You  Part Four

  5. Would the Real Man Please Stand Up  Part Five

  6. Is Testosterone to Blame? Part Six

 

 

    Divorce

  1. The Pain of Separation and Divorce

  2. Why So Many Divorces?  PDF Format

  3. Until Death Do Us Part

  4. Divorce Up 700%

  5. Until Divorce Do Us Part

  6. For the Sake of the Children - Part 1  Part 2

  7. God Hates Divorce and Violence

 

 Abuse/Violence Quizzes

  1. Parental Violence Quiz

  2. Intimate Partner Violence Quiz

  3. The Violence Quiz

 

 

    Abuse  Spouse, Child, & Sexual Abuse

  1. No More Tears Left to Cry

  2. Childhood Sex With My Father Still Pains Me.

  3. From Subordination to Equality in Christ By Annick Brennen

  4. The Church:  Caught Between the Devil and a Woman   Sept 23, 2010 Intimate Partner Abuse

  5. My Husband Raped Me

  6. The Lord Told Me

  7. The Church Must Change

  8. Please Remember Our Children 

  9. Sexual Abuse Prevention & Healing Seminar for People in Power

  10. Intimate Partner Violence Quiz

  11. Parental Violence Quiz

  12. I Can't Leave My Parents  PDF FORMAT  Article on child abuse

  13. What is Child Abuse? 

  14. Recognizing Sexual Abuse and What to Do About It

  15. Making a Non-Violent Bahamas 

  16. Why do Christian Husbands Abuse Their Wives?  - Part 1   Part 2   Part 3

  17. Domestic Violence and the Church  PDF Format 13 pages Updated October 15, 2001

  18. Religion, the Church and Domestic Violence Slide Show Download WP Presentations  or  Go Show - Ready to Run on Your Computer-    PDF FORMAT    Added June 24, 2002

  19. A Deadly Formula for Violence  

  20. Why Do Women Stay?

  21. I Can't Leave My Parents  PDF FORMAT  Why do children stay in abusive relationships?

  22. Effect of Abuse on Children

  23. Should I Leave Him?

  24. The Voice of A Little Child in Pain  Incest  Written April 7, 2002

  25. Dad and Uncles, Exposing Their Secret  Incest

  26. Dad, You're Hurting Me Again  Incest

  27. Why Do Men Stay in Abusive Relationships?  Added September 15, 2001

 

Campus Rage - Shame-based Relations -  Ending violence

  1. Campus Rage Begins in the Home  PDF Format

  2. Send Angry Parents Back to School PDF Format

Cigarette Smoking - Relationship

  1. Smoke-Free Marriages

 

    Parenting Parent-Child Relationship, Parenting Skills

  1. Please Do Not Buy a Car for Your Teenager

  2. Technology Black-outs for Children Under Age 12

  3. Dad's Please Hug Your Daughters

  4. Dad, Please Stay at Home

  5. Busy Hands, Lazy Brains

  6. Parental Tips for the New School Year

  7. Our Great Dads

  8. Back to Summer Plans

  9. Parental Power Varius

  10. Education and Family Revolution

  11. No Beating, Please

  12. Education and Family Revolution

  13. 23 Stupid Things Parents Do To Mess Up Their Children’s Lives  Updated July 27, 2012

  14. 23 Stupid Things Explanations

  15. The School Trip Nightmare

  16. The Birthday Party Dilemma

  17. Where Will Your Teenager Be On Saturday Night Part 2

  18. Where Will Your Teenager Be On Saturday Night?

  19. School Rules for Parents

  20. What Teens Need from Adults

  21. Teenagers, Violence, and Culpability

  22. Another 864 Hours Wasted

  23. Please Remember Our Children 

  24. Prom or Transcript? 

  25. My Father: A Real Father

  26. Education Reform Can Reduce Crime

  27. Releasing the Violence Trap

  28. The Violence Trap

  29. Crime, Family and God

  30. Homework Strategies for Parents

  31. Back To School With No Television

  32. The Obedience Trap

  33. Parental Violence Quiz

  34. Summer Mania Parenting during the school holidays

  35. The Effects of Parenting On Society  Presented at Calvary Bible Church, Nassau , Oct 26, 2003

  36. Raising Children  Slide Presentation to Go.  No software needed.  

  37. Back to Basics.  What Are They?  PDF FORMAT

  38. What Village Can Raise My Child?  PDF FORMAT

  39. Grammy's Tired Today  PDF Format

  40. When In-Laws Get In The Way    PDF FORMAT

  41. Mom, Please Listen to Me

  42. Keep the Children Out Of The Bed??!!

  43. It's Time to Close the Church Doors Part One

  44. It's Time to Close the Church Doors Part Two

  45. When the Good Lord Created Fathers

  46. When Parents Nurture, Children Blossom  Part 1

  47. When Parents Nurture, Children Blossom  Part 2

  48. Mom Ruins Son's Life  PDF Format Originally "Mom please leave your son alone"

  49. Talk So Your Child Will Listen

  50. What to say when your child asks about the birds and the bees?

  51. Growth and Development of Children and Teens

  52. A Father's Love 

  53. Mom's The Word  PDF Format  Written May 8, 2002

 

 

    Stress   Added October 7, 2001

  1. Serets to a Healthier, Happier Life:  Give Thanks   Tribune interview with Jeffarah Gibson  Nov 29, 2011

  2. Stress, a Blessing and a Curse

  3. Stress, a Blessing and a curse - Part 2

  4. Stress, "Laughing at wesef"  - Part 3

  5. Humor for Stress - Part 4

 

 

    Child Discipline

  1. Discipline or Punishment

  2. Rules Without Relationships  Part 1

  3. Rules Without Relationships  Part 2

  4. Teachers, Please Be Nice  Rules Without Relationships Part 3

  5. More Good Teachers Needed Rules Without Relationships Part 4

 

    Homosexuality  Compassion / Understanding / Recovery / Acceptance
  1. Must They Change

  2. Homosexuality and the Church

  3. Gays Are Not Our Problems   

  4. Overcoming the Homosexual Lifestyle  

  5. Condemnation or  Compassion  Added July 24, 2003

  6. Facing My Deepest Fears

  7. God Loves Homosexuals

  8. Learning to Love Homosexuals  

  9. Let's Make Him Straight

  10. Homosexuality: Hope or Dilemma  This article is for publication in a Adventist magazine and includes some thoughts from previous articles 

 

 

    Television

  1. Technology Black-Out for Children Under Age 12

  2. To Young to Watch Television

  3. It's Time to Get Rid of the Television

  4. Back To School With No Television

  5. Television and Sexual Feelings

  6. Television Blackout Time

 

Gambling

  1. Gambling with Sex

  2. Is Gambling Really Our Problem?

 

 

    General

  1. TEST   

  2. Please Don't Say that  - "Did God Put Donald Trump is Office?

  3. Diversity or Exclusivity

  4. Cigarette Smoking Should Only Be Allowed In Private

  5. Are You Retiring or Transitioning?       

  6. Win Their Confidence?  You Got to be Kidding!

  7. Mysterious Walking Trees and Light Poles

  8. May I Ask Who is Calling?

  9. Save a Life, Hold Your Tongue

  10. Summer Explosion 2015--What To Do?

  11. Winning of Souls--Is It Truly Our Only Purpose

  12. Women Without Children

  13. Resistance is Good for You and Your Relationship

  14. Junkanoo Carnival . . . Pain or Opportunity

  15. Power Naps Can Work Miracles

  16. Dress Code for Photographers

  17. My Dearest Mother and Me

  18. How Nasty Can We Get?

  19. More Gumption Needed in 2015

  20. Giving Thursday  December 23, 2014

  21. Friendship Thursday December 18

  22. Smiling Thursday December 11

  23. Kindness Thursday December 4

  24. The Social Media Dilemma

  25. The Luxury of Being Tired

  26. Stop and Pick Up the Trash

  27. Abortion: Freedom or Misery

  28. The Butterfly Principle

  29. A Message of Love to the Nation

  30. Aged Vigor

  31. Please Stop Killing the Innocents

  32. Men Who Sit on Toilet Seats

  33. Complicated Grief

  34. Tips on Pastoral Counseling PDF Slides

  35. What More Can I Write?

  36. A Constitution for Everyone

  37. A Child is Born

  38. Who Comes to Your Church?

  39. Happiness Killers

  40. The Bully Boss

  41. Traffic Laws in My Head

  42. How Fast Are Your Driving?

  43. Causes of Crime

  44. Identifying Poisonous Teachings

  45. Lights Off

  46. Mental Health After a Hurricane

  47. I am happy we are not a Christian nation

  48. Retirement and Family Life Seminar Slide Show Bahamas Electricity Corporation 2011

  49. New Government Ministry Needed

  50. Overcoming Life's Challenges [ Show ]  [ PDFSlide Presentation to Teachers (T. A. Thompson Junior High School)

  51. Say No to Christmas loans — please!

  52. More PEPSI Needed

  53. The Lord Told Me

  54. The Church Must Change

  55. West Jamaica "Bone of My Bone"

  56. What Teens Need from Adults

  57. Teenagers, Violence, and Culpability

  58. Let's Give Them a Second Chance Helping the Ex-con

  59. Family and Crime Reduction in The Bahamas  A Speech

  60. Education Reform Can Reduce Crime

  61. Crime, Family and God

  62. The Last Days . . . Family & Worship Controversy (Slide Show Sermon)

  63. The Physiological, Psychological & Behavioral Impact of Music  Slide Show

  64. Okay, You Can Have Your Peas and Rice

  65. No Peas and Rice In 2005

  66. My Emotions After the HurricaneTips to help you cope with crisis

  67. Whose Prayer Did God Answer?

  68. Sex and Driving 

  69. Who Delivered Your Christmas Gift?  PDF Format

  70. Gender Issues In Tertiary Education  PDF Format   

  71. Corel Slide Presentation for Gender Issues   No Software Needed  Use the space bar or arrow keys to move the slides forward.

  72. Revival!?!  What About the Family 

  73. New Year Transformational Resolutions    PDF Format

  74. The Gift of Poinsettias   PDF Format

  75. Fixing Our Nation   PDF Format

  76. To "Let Go" Takes Love  PDF Format

  77. I Am a Vegetarian, And So Is My Dog  PDF Format  June 2002

  78. The Meaning of Family Author Unknown

  79. Tradition Must Make Sense

  80. Look Forward to Being Very, Very, Old  Part 1

  81. Look Forward to Being Very, Very, Old  Part 2

  82. Christmas Sadness

  83. AIDS!   Let's Make a Difference

  84. Worry Can be Dangerous to Your Health

  85. Laughter is Good Medicine, So is Love, Tears, & a Good Diet"

  86. Why Should I be the One To Die?

  87. More Good Women Needed (Stupid Things Women Do)

  88. A New Bread of Bahamian Men Needed  (More Good Men Needed)

  89. No Crabs for Our Fathers

  90. Suicide is Forever

  91. The Society of Child-Like Grown Ups

  92. Beatitudes to Teenagers  PDF Format

  93. What is God's Will  

  94. Whose Prayer Did God Answer?

  95. Why Stop the Crime?  PDF Format

  96. The Golden Era Of Virtuous Bahamian Men

  97. Where Will Our Cruise Ship Dock?

 

    Seminar Slide Shows All shows are in WordPerfect Presentations

  1. Untying the Knot Slides from "Cure for the Common Life"

  2. Relationship Fireproof Seminar At Breezes Hotel, March 13, 2015.  By Antioch Baptist Church

  3. Keeping the Fire in Your Marriage The Women’s Convention of the Bahamas National Baptist Missionary And Educational, Held at Transfiguration Baptist Church February 21, 2014, Nassau

  4. Farewell to the Brennens  Living Fatih Seventh-day Adventist Church Janaury 19, 2013

  5. Refresh, Recommit, Reconnect Slide Show Marriage Seminar

  6. Peace in Your Marriage Slide Show

  7. Barefoot Sabbath at Living Faith Sermon Slide Show for June 7, 2008

  8. The Last Days . . . Family & Worship Controversy (Slide Show Sermon)

  9. The Physiological, Psychological & Behavioral Impact of Music  Slide Show

  10. Raising Children  Slide Presentation to Go.  No software needed.  

  11. "In Partnership With God"  Show to go.  No software needed.  Slides for the Consecration Service for Women's and Children's Ministries, February 6, 2004

  12. "In Partnership With God"  PDF Format for printing

  13. "I Don't Love You Anymore" Corel Presentation Presented at Mount Mariah Baptist Church, Nassau, December 5, 2003

  14. The Effects of Parenting On Society  Presented at Calvary Bible Church, Nassau , October 26, 2003

    1. Power Point Slide Show No Software Needed   

    2. Power Point Slide Show To Down Load On Your Computer

  15. Hope Sermon Slides  863K

  16. Broken Cisterns  WordPerfect Presentation Format  - Sermon Slides

  17. Domestic Violence and the Church "What the Church Can Do"  WP .6 mb

  18. Religion, the Church and Domestic Violence  WP 

  19. Sexual Abstinence  WordPerfect Presentation Format - Seminar Slides

  20. Two Shall Become One Marriage Seminar Slides  WordPerfect  1.2 mb

  21. Retirement and Family Life Seminar .6mb   Participants Handout of Slides Information (Abbreviated) PDF FORMAT  2 Pages

  22. Retirement and Family Life Social Survey PDF FORMAT

  23. Affirmation, Appreciation, Commitment Slide Show to Go No software needed

  24. Affirmation, Appreciation, Commitment Slide Show to Download (WordPerfect Presentation Needed) 1.2 MB

  25. Reach Out And Touch Audio Sermon  -  Family Ministries Day at Centreville, February 28, 2004

  26. WEDDING PREPARATION PRESENTATION  THIS

 

 


 

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